Can love hurt?

If you find love... stay with the feeling. It is a place where you are safe and cocooned. A place that allows you to BE.

Love does not hurt.
Love gives. Unconditionally.
And accepts. Without expectations.

There are times when it feels good to hear and see the feeling in action. These times only serve to stroke the spinal chord. They are the food for the heart and the mind. They are the sustenance of the soul.

In this world of love, hurt and hate have no place.

Why does it hurt, then, in love?

The person who is getting hurt is choosing to get hurt.
The person who is inflicting hurt is probably not even aware of it!
Whenever one gets hurt, s(h)e feels so BECAUSE they have allowed the other to hurt them. This power is granted freely in loving relationships. And never used or abused. It is all in the mind of the person getting hurt!

In other words, if you love someone, you cannot hurt this person. If this person still feels hurt about soething, anything, it is a feeling they have chosen to feel.

If I love someone, and am feeling hurt, I have granted that power to hurt to the person I love. Not the other way round. A very difficult situation and yet, so simple... The power to hurt is yours alone to grant.

Love will NEVER hurt.

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